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Over 20 years experience

I have spent over 30 years working with survivors of trauma, PTSD, and a variety of medical challenges including TBI and ABI

How to get started

The first step is trusting someone with your story and allowing that person to come alongside you on your journey.

Welcome to Lifepaths

Clinical Care Grounded in Neuroscience:
Trauma, Brain Injury, and Complex Recovery


Life can change in a single moment.

Sometimes the shift is subtle and we adjust little by little. But sometimes the shift is sudden — a major injury, a frightening medical event, a trauma that leaves lasting effects, or an experience that shakes the foundation of your inner world. These moments can disrupt not only your emotional life, but also your brain and nervous system in ways you may never have been told to expect.

When the brain is impacted — as in an acquired or traumatic brain injury, neurological illness, or prolonged physiological stress — everything can feel unfamiliar: emotions, energy, balance, clarity, and even your sense of self may shift in ways that are disorienting and overwhelming.

Lifepaths is a place where your experience is taken seriously — emotionally, physically, and neurologically.

Lifepaths is a place where the whole of your experience is taken seriously — emotionally, physically, and neurologically.

This is a space to slow down, breathe, and begin to make sense of what has happened to you. A space where you can safely ask questions, explore your fears, and be genuinely heard.

A space where you do not have to push, pretend, or minimize what you are going through.

Understanding what is happening inside your brain.

Neuroscience gives us language for why everything feels so different right now.

Trauma, injury, and persistent overwhelm can alter how the nervous system interprets the world, how the brain regulates emotion, and how your body responds to even small triggers. These shifts are real, measurable, and not a sign of weakness.

Gaining clarity about what your brain is doing — and why — can bring back a sense of agency. It helps you understand that your reactions are not character flaws; they are neurobiological responses to very real events.

While you may have been feeling that you simply have nowhere to turn when it comes to trying to process your emotions or find a way out:

  • I am here to assure you that you do not have to walk through this alone.
  • Here, you don’t have to minimize your symptoms or pretend you’re fine.
  • You don’t have to push past what your body and brain cannot yet do.
  • And you don’t have to walk alone in the dark.

What Support Can Help Restore

No one should have to bump around in the dark when light can be shed upon your experiences. While not all aspects of recovery can be neatly mapped out, having a place to come to with your questions can certainly lighten the load. Having someone come alongside you can:

  • A renewed sense of safety
  • Understanding what your brain is trying to protect you from
  • Calming the nervous system without force or pressure
  • Rebuilding clarity, grounding, and stability
  • Reconnecting with the person you are becoming — not just the person you were before

Healing is not just about “getting back to normal.” It is about finding your new steady, at your brain’s pace, with support that honors both your biology and your humanity.

You Do Not Have To Walk Through This Alone

If you’ve been feeling lost, stuck, or unsure where to turn, please hear this clearly:

You don’t have to minimize your symptoms.

You don’t have to push past what your brain and body cannot yet do.

You don’t have to walk alone in the dark.

My goal at Lifepaths is to blend compassionate, trauma-informed therapy with science-based understanding of the brain to help you navigate this season with wisdom, dignity, and support.

Welcome to Lifepaths

A place where science and compassion walk beside you, one step at a time.

A place where your story matters.

And a place where you don’t have to take the next step alone.

 

 

 

 


You do not have to travel alone on your journey!

Why Lifepaths?

A lifepath is a pathway through life as determined by the choices and decisions a person makes.

By the time you have reached this stage in your life’s journey you most certainly have traversed many paths: some good, some problematic and painful. This is something we all have in common. My hope is that in coming to the place you are now you will give yourself permission to invite someone to come alongside you and support you on your journey and that you will find the healing path.

Faith-based Counseling Available

If you are a person of faith, I want to remind you that God cares deeply about your mental health every bit as much as He does your physical and spiritual wellbeing. He tells us that in the multitude of counselors there is wisdom, and clearly encourages us to seek counsel when we are struggling. “Show me the right path, O Lord, and point out the road for me to follow” the psalmist prayed in Psalm 25:4. Part of my ministry over the years has been to come alongside pastors and those in ministry positions as well as those in the Church seeking Christian counseling. I would consider it an honor to be invited onto the journey with you.

 

 

 

I want to assure you that there are answers to the challenges you face. There is hope. While the rapidly changing world about us can leave us feeling anxious, stressed, alienated, and unsure, we can find stability in the midst of it all.  Our faithful God has promised us hope as an anchor for our souls that is both steadfast and secure (Heb. 6:19).

My goal is to provide a safe place for you to share your concerns, and my prayer is that you will find hope for your circumstances, light in the midst of the darkness, and that you will experience healing in those places of your deepest hurts.

I would consider it a privilege to assist you on your healing journey, whatever life path you have journeyed upon.

In the meantime, I hope the information found on these pages will answer some of the questions you may have and provide some helpful resources.

Because of Him,
Pam

 


Start
Your
Journey

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”

Deciding to find healing begins with a decision, is sustained with a commitment, and ends with a resolution to hold on to what you have gained in the process. While embarking on the healing journey certainly requires an inner fortitude and courage on our part, the reward we reap is great.

“The longest and toughest journeys are often the most rewarding.”

Where do I start? Begin by deciding to take the journey. First, consider: Where are you now and where do you want to be? Then, decide to take action. Research and find where the resources you need to reach your goals can be found and let nothing deter you from taking that first step. Start small if necessary, but at least get moving forward and refuse to remain stuck in the cycle you’ve been trapped in for too long.

“If you can’t fly, then run, If you can’t run, then walk, If you can’t walk, then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.” Martin Luther King, Jr.

Commit to the process. Devote your time and resources to it so that you can reach your healing destination. It’s worth it!

“Unless a commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes, but no plans.”


The first step is trusting someone with your story and allowing that person to come alongside you on your journey.